Over 3,000 years ago, the Chinese became experts at recording the effects of sex on physical and emotional health. They discovered how the vital life force, Qi, that flows through the body is impacted by sex. How this in turn affects all the organs in the body. Healthy, regular sex keeps your organs functioning properly. Conversely, a lack of sex - or unhealthy sex - sets off a negative domino effect on your body. According to Chinese Medicine, the liver controls your emotions. The Qi of the liver flows through the genitals. When the flow through the genitals is not supported through sexual stimulation, the congestion can create blockages which turns into physical problems. The result? Health problems, fatigue, aches and pains, lack of concentration, mood swings, and accelerated aging COMBINED with reduced sex drive and desire for your partner, which then leads to relationship damage. It’s a nasty downward spiral. When people don’t fully understand the connection between sex, health, and intimacy, they tend to make all sorts of mistakes, and then they experience symptoms they were wholly unprepared for. A typical example I see in my practice is the couple who has not had sex for weeks, months, and even years.
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