The time when you asked
was everything "okay?"
and
I answered, I was "fine!";
Started the descent
into the canyons of
loneliness.

The time when you walked
in silence and felt
the cold dull void
between us;
Continued this drought
away from the harmony of
love.

The time when I stood up
and walked away
to get some warmth and support;
Ended this state of unwelcome
unease within my being.

Happiness comes when
thoughts and actions
benefit the ones you love -
and that includes you. ​

Over 3,000 years ago, 
the Chinese became experts
at recording the effects of sex 
on physical and emotional health.
They discovered how 
the vital life force, Qi,
that flows through the body
is impacted by sex.
How this in turn affects
all the organs in the body.
Healthy, regular sex keeps
your organs functioning properly.
Conversely, a lack of sex -
or unhealthy sex -  
sets off a negative domino effect on your body.
According to Chinese Medicine, 
the liver controls your emotions. 
The Qi of the liver flows
through the genitals.
When the flow through the genitals
is not supported through sexual stimulation, 
the congestion can create blockages
which turns into physical problems.
The result?
Health problems, fatigue, aches and pains,
lack of concentration,
mood swings, 
and accelerated aging
COMBINED
with reduced sex drive 
and desire for your partner,
which then leads to relationship damage.
It’s a nasty downward spiral.
When people don’t fully understand the connection
between sex, health, and intimacy,
they tend to make all sorts of mistakes, 
and then they experience symptoms
they were wholly unprepared for.
A typical example I see in my practice
is the couple who has not had sex for weeks, months, 
and even years.