So I step back
from the door.
Not away from you...
just away from waiting.

Life doesn't stop 
because a door is open.
It keeps moving,
and so will I.

If you want to walk
through it,
you'll find me
somewhere
further
down
the path,
still open,
still whole.

If you don't,
I'll have lived 
and
grown 
anyway.
​
Not because I stopped
loving,
but because I never stopped
living.

I want to write this from a place of peace, compassion and honesty, because I genuinely believe that most people, regardless of where they stand on immigration, want the same things.

We want safe communities, opportunities for our families, and societies that live together in harmony.

Across Ireland and the wider European Union, we have seen large numbers of people arriving from the Middle East, Africa and other troubled parts of the world. At first, many of us understood this as a response to humanitarian crises. We were told that many of these people were fleeing war, persecution, poverty and instability, and it felt like the right thing to do to offer safety and refuge to those who genuinely needed it.

However, over time it has become clear that our governments have struggled to create a system that truly helps people integrate into our societies. Instead of creating pathways into communities, education, employment and cultural understanding, many people have been placed into hotels and temporary accommodation for years on end. While they may receive shelter, financial support, food, clothing and safety, they are often left without a meaningful role in society or a clear path forward.
This is not good for them and it is not good for the communities around them.

When people are brought into a country but not truly integrated, they can become isolated, frustrated and disconnected. Many have come from places that have experienced war, violence and trauma for generations. Before we judge individuals, we should try to understand where they have come from and what they may have experienced. Many have seen things that most of us could never imagine.

At the same time, understanding those experiences does not mean ignoring the challenges that can arise when integration fails. Every country already has its own problems with crime, antisocial behaviour, domestic and all violence, addiction and social division. If governments continue to bring people into a country without helping them become part of society, tensions can grow and communities can become fractured.

The answer is not hatred.

The answer is not racism.

The answer is not division.

The answer is integration.

People should be encouraged and supported to learn the language of the country they have come to, understand its laws and customs, find employment, contribute to society and become active members of their local communities. Work, responsibility, purpose and belonging help people build a future. They create dignity, self-respect and stronger communities.

Furthermore, I also believe every nation has the right and responsibility to preserve its own culture, traditions and identity. Ireland should remain Irish. France should remain French. Italy should remain Italian. Every nation in Europe has a unique history, language, heritage and way of life that has been built over centuries. These things should not be lost or weakened because people are afraid to discuss them.

Preserving our culture does not mean rejecting others. It means valuing what our ancestors built and passing it on to future generations. A society can be welcoming while also being confident in its own identity.

I feel, integration works best when newcomers understand and respect the culture of the country they are joining. We only have to look at the Irish people who emigrated to America, Australia, Britain and many other countries throughout history. They brought their traditions, music, stories and culture with them, but they also worked, contributed, integrated and became part of the societies that welcomed them. They built lives, raised families and played a positive role in the countries they called home.

We can also look closer to home. Ireland has seen excellent examples of integration in recent decades. Thousands of Polish people and people from other Eastern European countries came here looking for opportunities for themselves and their families after joining into the European Union. They joined our workplaces, started businesses, played in our sports clubs, became our neighbours and friends, raised their children here and became part of the fabric of Irish society. They brought their own culture and traditions, but they also embraced life in Ireland, it's customs and contributed enormously to our communities and economy. Their success shows what can happen when people are given the opportunity to work, participate and build a future alongside the local population.

I believe most people want peace.

Most people want stability.

Most people want a future where people of different backgrounds can live side by side with mutual respect. 

For that to happen, governments across Europe need to move beyond short-term solutions, built on lining their own coffers, and develop long-term integration policies that benefit everyone.

Compassion must be matched with responsibility.

Welcome must be matched with integration.

Rights must be matched with responsibilities.

A successful immigration policy is not measured simply by the number of people who arrive. It is measured by how successfully people become part of the nation they have chosen to call home.

If we can achieve that balance, then we can remain:

Compassionate without being naïve.

Preserve our cultures without becoming hostile.

and

Build societies that are strong, peaceful and united for generations to come.

That is the Ireland I would like to see.

And on a larger scale a Europe that is:

Compassionate enough to help those in genuine need.

Confident enough to preserve the identity of every nation.

and

Wise enough to understand that integration, not division, is the path towards a peaceful future for everyone.

Yes, your gifts
are innumerable...
Yes, your depth
is incalculable...
Yes, your presence
is unforgettable...
Yes, your touch
is healing...
Yes, your style
is undeniable...
Yes, your power
is mind blowing...
And yes, you're loved and adored
more than you can comprehend.

Can it just be
the work
you do,
the person
you marry
or
the adventures
you choose to take... 
That decides
your
happiness?  
Or
Is it also  
the way you
speak to yourself,
the way you
showing up
for yourself...
Each
and
every day...
In any
small way. 
Is that true
​freedom?