Note to my children: getting Disappointed

Note to my children
When I get disappointed about activities with you do that you're unhappy or disappointed with, please do not see this disappointment as being about you, it is more a disappointment for you.
When I think back, I felt my father was disappointed in me when I lost at sport or even if I came second in a competition. I would see his disappointment but didn't realise that he was disappointed FOR me. I told myself he was disappointed IN me. I was wrong, please try not to make this mistake too.